Anita Chlipala

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Anita Chlipala Anita A. Chlipala is a dating and relationship therapist, author, and speaker. She is on a mission to prove that healthy, satisfying, and passionate relationships are possible.
Anita uses relationship science to give practical advice that brings results. She is frequently quoted in the media, and has been featured in Oprah Magazine, The Today Show, Dr. Oz, Cosmopolitan, People, Men’s Health Magazine, Harper’s Bazaar, Brides, and many more.
Anita is a licensed marriage & family therapist (LMFT) and received her Master’s degree in the nationally accredited Marital & Family therapy program from the University of San Diego. She works with singles, individuals, and couples.
Anita’s book, First Comes Us, The Busy Couple’s Guide to Lasting Love, is available on Amazon.

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That sucks, baby: Less stress, better talk time

Couple laughs and talks easing their stress

Crap happens. A coworker pisses you off, you have an important deadline looming, and your family is driving you crazy. Of course you want to turn toward your partner for support and comfort. How a couple handles non-relationship stressors can … Continue reading

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A Dating Killer: Assumptions

Woman looks through blinds

Would you date or dump if: You were dating a woman who complained a lot about things going on in her life. You found out the man you were dating still lived at home. Someone with your religious background asked … Continue reading

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Is Cupid’s Day a Stupid Day?

Is Valentine's Day a stupid day?

Yes and No. Yes if you see Valentine’s Day as a mandatory time to express love – you go through the motions because you feel obligated but don’t honor or feel the emotional significance. No if you use February 14th … Continue reading

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You’ll find love when you least expect it…or will you? Part 2

A couples holds hands on the beach finding love where they least expected it

In my last blog I wrote about how love won’t necessarily come find you, so put yourself in situations to maximize your chances of meeting a potential partner. Although your surroundings are important, you also have to prepare yourself in … Continue reading

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You’ll find love when you least expect it…or will you? (Part 1)

woman searches for love, find love when you least expect it?

Being single can feel miserable, and it can become worse when well-meaning friends try to make you feel better. They offer encouragements such as “There are plenty of fish in the sea” or “You still have time.” But one riles … Continue reading

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Rock out the New Year with Must-Have Relationship Resolutions

Couple makes new years resolutions over champaign toast

It’s that time of year again – to make New Year’s resolutions. Your list may include losing weight, drinking less or saving more, but what about for your romantic relationship? Good ones don’t just happen naturally. They take time, effort … Continue reading

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