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#AskPatti: Getting over heartbreak, looking for love, settling questions & more!

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Posted at 1:30 pm on May 1, 2014

Hello, hello! How are you all? Based on your fantastic questions, you guys are definitely feeling spring fever. And I’m 100% with you! Something about spring time just gets everyone’s romance juices flowing. It’s a great time to start dating someone new or double down with your partner and be really romantic with each other, like you’re back to those first few months of dating. Here are some of my favorite #AskPatti questions from this week. There were so many, I couldn’t do them all. But, check back soon. I’ll save all of them and answer them at some point!

I am so sorry to hear about your heartbreak, girl. The first step is to realize that it gets better. I know that sounds cheesy, but it’s true. Every day, you get further and further away from the pain of your split and closer and closer to feeling like your awesome self. And, believe it or not, there’s going to be a day when you don’t think about him at all. In the meantime, I’d say keep yourself busy and date a lot. Don’t jump into anything serious for a good, long while. But, get yourself back in the game. Your Prince Charming is out there. You just need to find him.
Your attitude! If you have a “woe is me” perspective on life, you’re never going to find love. After all, who wants to date a sourpuss who doesn’t believe she’s ever going to find romance? Realize that love is out there and if you put positivity into the world, you’ll get positive results back.
No. I honestly believe that every single person out there deserves to find overwhelmingly wonderful true love. You should wake up every morning next to a person who thinks you’re the greatest thing to ever happen to planet earth. So, if you’re not feeling that right now, do both of yourselves a favor and get out of the relationship.
I think you know the answer here. If the best thing you can say about a man is that he’s lukewarm, then that’s not the man you should be dating. Ditch this loser and find someone who’s flaming hot for you. You deserve it, lady!

Talk to you lovelies next week!

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