Do you date online?
It’s not easy is it?
You have to wade through hundreds of profiles and incoming messages from men. Then you have to spend hours trying to figure out which ones you like, and which ones are complete frauds. That’s before you try working out which ones only want to wave their penises at you on a webcam. But the biggest issue with online dating for women, is working out which men are telling the truth on their profiles. You see, men have a habit of putting the superhero version of themselves on their dating profile.
They’re all fit and good looking. They all have good jobs, big houses, and love taking “romantic strolls along the beach.”
Can someone explain to me how a guy who lives in South Dakota can take strolls along the beach everyday? I mean, most of America lives inland so how do we have so many beach-strollers?
Another thing guys put on their online dating profiles is about how active they are. They talk about how passionate they are about life and how many hobbies they have. So how come when you meet them they spend all day playing x box like teenage boys? Don’t even start me on the dating profile picture they use. How many guys use old photos from 5 years ago when they were 100 pounds lighter? Don’t they get that you’ll find out the truth when you meet them? What a lot of men do online, is show you the version of themselves they want you to see. It’s the version of themselves they’d like to be.
But it’s not just men, and this is what I really want to talk to you about today. So many women online talk about how, “fun-loving, friendly, down-to-earth, and sexy” they are. So how comes half the women I pass in the street don’t even know how to smile at men?
What a lot of men do online, is show you the version of themselves they want you to see. It’s the version of themselves they’d like to be.
Sometimes it’s like walking through a scene from “Dawn of the Dead” when I’m out and about. Women are either buried in their phones, or staring right ahead. There’s no eye contact and no connection whatsoever. Where is all the fun, sexy, and friendliness” I read about in your online dating profiles?
Here’s what we need to start doing. Instead of sitting online mentally masturbating over the men you think you’re going to fall in love with, wait until you meet them and then work out what they’re really like. In the meantime, instead of planning your wedding with this dream online man, concentrate on becoming that open, friendly, sexy, and fun-loving woman you talk about.
Start talking to men, and show us who you really are. Here’s an example of what I’m talking about…
Let’s say you’re out shopping one day. You see a man looking at jeans. He has a pair of black ones in his hand, but you think he’ll look better in the blue ones. Instead of saying nothing, you walk right on over and you say, “Hi, you know, I’m sure the black ones will look good on you, but I really think you should try on the blue pair too. I think they’ll show of your eyes really well. My name is “whatever” by the way…”
It’s that simple. Say what’s on your mind. Look at what’s going on around you and say what’s on your mind. Don’t hide the person you are inside. It’s time you became that superhero version of yourself you put online, because you’re an attractive, beautiful woman, and the world deserves to see more of you show up!
