Why Accurate Pictures Is The First Step To Find True Love
Wow.
I’m going to share a story that was sent to me today. It’s a story that a lot of people need to hear and understand immediately.
This is by no means insulting you, who you are, what you’re about or what you look like.
I want you to remember this statement as you read through this post: for every seat, there’s an ass that wants to drive it.
When I was in the car business a long, long time ago, somebody told me, no matter how ugly the car might be, there is someone who will think it’s absolutely the most beautiful car out there.
There’s an ass for every seat.
There’s not one ugly person in this world.
I want you to read that statement, and I’m going to post it again.
There’s not one ugly person in this world, because for every person who looks a certain way, there is someone who will want to connect with that person and who will find that person attractive.
Attraction is not a choice.
Let me write that again.
Attraction is not a choice.
So why do so many people try to manipulate attraction?
Why do they live in fear of not finding anybody, when if they look at their dating history, they’ve always found somebody.
Which leads me to the story of a young man who went out on a date. He is an evolved man. A man who’s truthful, honest, and seeking love.
He is a man who desires to be connecting with a higher vibrational, evolved woman. He is a man who likes to make love for hours at a time. A man who is attentive, nurturing, self-sufficient, and fully aware of what he wants in a relationship.
He’s open too. He’s actually going out on dates. He’s willing to meet people. He has one criteria, and one criteria only.
When he meets someone online, he wants to FaceTime with them first to get an idea of who they are and what they look like, because he doesn’t trust the picture.
The picture is something that has lied to him many times before. Women feel the need to take angle shots, use Photoshop, take professional pictures and not use body shots. They think that if they can just get the guy to the date, their magical… who knows what, can actually convince the guy to like them.
In reality, it goes back to the same thing over and over again.
Attraction is not a choice.
How many times have you walked into a date and the guy did not look like his picture? He was 20 pounds overweight, and no matter what you did, you couldn’t convince yourself to be attracted to him.
It works both ways, which leads us to this amazing, evolved man who went out on this date.
She was unattractive… at least to him. He felt absolutely no attraction in person. Zero.
He broke his rule. He broke his rule and the date was a fail. A waste of time.
There was no attraction and of course, no spark.
Beauty is subjective as we all know. One person’s nightmare is another person’s treasure.
But he was pissed.
What happened this time? He broke his rule. His rule to always have a FaceTime conversation before meeting. He wants to feel their energy. He likes to look into their eyes, and most importantly, he likes to see if he’s attracted to the woman.
It’s only fair. His time is precious to him. All relationships start with attraction. It’s the jumping off place.
To see if you can really connect with each other.
This man wants a relationship. He wants a family. He wants the whole thing.
They emailed and talked on the phone and he found out that she wants children, she wants to be in love, she wants the whole thing. She was highly entertaining. So he broke his rule.
He didn’t want to break his rule, and as he was driving to the date, he thought to himself, I’m breaking the rule. I know I shouldn’t be breaking the rule.
He called me on the way home from the date. He was telling me the story and he paused, he said it was 40 minutes of hell.
Torture.
He said, I broke the rule and I was not attracted to her. She was not an attractive woman to me at all. I didn’t feel anything for her. She was sweet, she was nice and I felt really bad because if I had just stuck with the one rule, she could have been out with somebody else tonight.
She could have been looking across the table at somebody who thought she was absolutely beautiful because there are people who will think she’s beautiful.
Once again, attraction is not a choice.
He said to me, David… the minute I picked her up, the minute I watched her walk down the steps of her house, I looked at her and thought this is not a woman I would ever be attracted to.
I literally wanted to drive away. But me being a high vibrational person, I wasn’t going to be rude. As she got in the car her energy was all off. We were mismatched.
So I drove her to a local coffee shop down the street that had music. After about 15 minutes I went to the bathroom.
In the bathroom he thought, I’m going to tell her, I’m going to tell her that she’s sweet and nice because that’s what she is. But I’m going to be forthright and honest with her.
He looked at her and said, I don’t feel it. I don’t feel it at all. I don’t feel any attraction at all. I think you are a wonderful person and I feel like you should be out with somebody else tonight.
He said, I channeled my inner David. I was being honest and forthright. All I wanted to do was go home, get back on the Internet, and go find somebody I might be able to connect with. Or go out and flirt with somebody in person.
She was not attractive to me at all. She was a nice person. I drove her home and told her, “Thank you for meeting me and spending this short time with me on a Saturday night.”
How many times do I need to tell all of you to post pictures that are real? How many times do I need to tell all of you to post body shots that are real, that are current?
How many times do I need to tell all of you to stop lying through your pictures because you’re never going to convince somebody to be physically attracted to you.
Let’s face it, that’s one of the first trigger points that comes up on a date. It’s time we stop lying to each other. It’s time we start telling the truth online and realize, no matter what you look like, there’s an ass for every seat.
The quicker we put our real self out there, the quicker all of us asses are going to find the right seat to sit in and find love.
