I keep hearing this ridiculous statement spouted by bitter women all around the globe, and it drives me nuts. If men don’t like commitment, why are so many men in a committed relationship?
I hate blanket stereotypes like this one. In all my years as a dating and relationship expert, the only women I hear say these kinds of things have been hurt in the past. Most of them have a grudge against men in general.
I’ve always found women who throw around those empty statements about men and commitment, always date the wrong men themselves. They constantly fall for the same men over and over again, and then claim, “all men are the same!”
Life is all about learning from our past experiences and mistakes, and yes, there are men that don’t like commitment, but there are many woman that do not like commitment either.
During the years I’ve been coaching, I’ve seen men and women who don’t like commitment. And these people are all at different stages in their dating lives. Some have just come out of long-term relationships, and don’t want anything serious for a while. Others are young and want to play the field a little first.
Life is all about learning from our past experiences and mistakes, and yes, there are men that don’t like commitment, but there are many woman that do not like commitment either.
When I was young and single I didn’t want to commit either. I was having too much fun and meeting different kinds of women. Those experiences helped me discover what kind of woman I wanted to settle down with.
My advice to singles is to respect whatever path another person is going down. If they’re playing the field and having fun, you can’t force them to commit. There are tons of quality men to date who are happy to commit.
Get out there, stop complaining, be proactive and find the men who are looking to settle down. If you’re the type of woman that’s only attracted to players, you’re getting exactly what you deserve.
Dating successfully is all about taking responsibility. If you only meet men who want sex on the first date, you’re looking in the wrong places. If you only date guys who don’t treat you well, YOU’RE making the decision to date them.
If you don’t like the way your relationships are turning out, you need to make changes. You need to look at what you want from a partner, and start actively looking for men with those traits. It’s no good blaming the whole of mankind because you’re single!
You just make yourself look bitter and I’m telling you, it’s not attractive!
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