We all have the desire to find the perfect lifelong partner for ourselves, which seems to come very easily to some and not so easily to others. The difference in those who seem to find a strong and long lasting love versus those who have a difficult time making love last and rather seem to always attract the wrong people is not by mere luck or chance, but rather it is contingent upon the quality of the individual’s thoughts which in turn dictates the result and the quality of one’s relationship and who they ultimately attract into their life.
What many don’t understand is that we can actually manifest through the law of attraction and visualize exactly what we want in a life partner through sending out our exact desires and expectations of what we desire. This concept was made highly popular by the great teacher Mr. Bob Proctor who has dedicated his entire life and career to what are known as the concepts of manifestation, visualization and the Law of Attraction. Let’s first define these concepts generally in order to understand their basis and then we will see how these concepts apply to finding true love and a lifelong partner.
Like all things in life (romantic relationships being no different) everything is dictated by perception- everything that we are and the results we receive all begin within us rather than outside of us; it all begins with our minds. For example, James Allan once said, 100 years ago, “the mind is the master power that molds and makes- and man is mind, and evermore he takes the tool of thought and shaping what he wills bring fourth a thousand joys or a thousand ills”. According to scientists, thinking is a powerful force – it’s been said that it’s the most powerful force we’re capable of. Thought, even though it’s invisible, is an actual force of substance as real as electricity, light, heat, water, etc. and actually our thoughts pass like currents of electricity (Scientists compare thought with the speed of light). Bob Proctor beautifully defines this law, stating that “Thinking is a very powerful form of energy – thought waves are cosmic waves that penetrate all time and space”. Thus, in life, the ruling mental state is EVERYTHING.
Thus, in life, the ruling mental state is EVERYTHING.
Since we were little we have all been trained to believe that we need to change and control what’s going on outside of us, in our environment. But actually, we have it backwards; we must change and control what’s going on internally, within our minds in order to have what we truly desire in life whether it is a good mood, a dream job or finding true love. You don’t have to worry about changing what’s going on out there; instead everything in your life will begin to change as you take over the power of thought and focus on the inner faculties of perception, intuition, reason and imagination. Additionally, relative to the law of attraction, Bob Proctor states that as you activate ideas in your mind and send out a charge of energy, your brain will take on an equal amount of energy of a like nature. So if you send out a negative thought your brain will take on an equal amount of negative energy, and on the flip side, if you send out a positive thought your brain will take on an equal amount of positive energy.
The quality of our thoughts literally dictates our results, if we think positive we get positive, if we think negative we get negative.
You can see how the quality of our thoughts literally dictates our results, if we think positive we get positive, if we think negative we get negative. It’s so basic yet it’s so misunderstood in our society and most would never relate this to finding love. We receive what we give (what we think) and this concept is demonstrated in our daily lives. For example, have you ever had the desire to see a certain friend, thus you think about them for a minute then move on with your day? This thought and desire is sent out into the universe and then as you’ve totally forgotten about it and went on with your day (because you are in a relaxed state with no expectations) then soon after that same friend coincidentally calls you or you bump into them on the street. This is no coincidence, this is the law of attraction working in your life, and it is happening24/7. On the other hand, have you ever focused too much and strained too much to have something or find something and it never seems to happen the way you desired? This is because your mental state and quality of thought is not good, you’re focusing too much on the desired outcome and it doesn’t happen because it is being blocked due to your uptightness and forcing it because the thought occurred within a strained state of consciousness. The law of attraction, although relevant and always working within all facets of our lives, especially applies to finding love and a life long partner.
The law of attraction, although relevant and always working within all facets of our lives, especially applies to finding love and a life long partner.
You can actually manifest your man through the power of your thoughts and receive exactly what you want in someone, through the law of attraction. You can actually find exactly what you want in a partner by giving and putting out into the universe (without forcing or straining) what you most desire. So if you want someone who, for example, is fun loving and loyal, you must be and exude just that- you must adapt your thoughts and give what you want to receive. Through adopting the concepts of this law of thought you will actually start to attract different people into your life directly in accordance to the quality of thoughts you’re putting out into the universe.
You must give something before you can receive something, and to receive something you must open yourself up and be relaxed and always sending out positive thoughts into the universe.
If you desire something you must give exactly what you desire and it can physically be drawn into your life. Before manifesting, in order for it to work, you must be in a good place mentally and know who you are. If you are going through a hard time this is probably not the best time to manifest because your energy is all over the place. You must have a positive energy to attract positive!
- Know what you don’t want in a partner
- Know what you do want in a partner
- Think about those qualities in a positive manner, take on these positive qualities yourself and then let it go into the universe without strain or forcing anything
By giving out good we are going to receive good – it’s all tied together.
If you repeat this exercise and increase awareness, your perception of life will change and what you will attract back into your life will begin to change as well. We must understand that the only way to receive good is to give good – put it out into the universe and take on that form yourself. So if you constantly find yourself attracting the wrong partners it is because your mind is sending out or giving the wrong or negative vibrations. You must put positive desires (thin specific qualities you want in a partner) and thoughts out into the universe then relax and let it be- don’t strain or force it to happen- because it’s thinking that controls everything and It’s the quality of thought we give it with that truly matters. By giving out good we are going to receive good – it’s all tied together. What you have in your life is a reflection of what you’ve been giving so whatever type of partner you want to attract make sure your thought quality is always positive and in sync with what you most desire. There’s no secret to success and finding a partner – you can indeed manifest anything in your life, including your perfect partner. It’s simply that you just must decide what you love and want in someone and adapt your thoughts accordingly; the problem is most people aren’t decisive enough in what they love or are truly looking for in a lifelong partner.
