An orgasm misconception debunked!

Dear Molly,


Many women have this misconception that internal, vaginal orgasm is superior to clitoral orgasm. However, this is not the case. In fact, 75% of women require clitoral stimulation in order to reach orgasm, whether it be clitoral or G spot. If you want to have an orgasm during sex, try woman on top which allows for more clitoral stimulation as well as using your hand to stimulate your own clitoris. My question is, though, have you ever had a G spot orgasm? if you haven’t, why not buy some sex toys? There are a ton of sex toys that are used solely for women in search of their G-spot. Try checking out Good Vibrations to find one that works for you. Like the Stronic Eins Pulsator or  the Aqua Rabbit Vibrator. You can start using toys on your own or even with your partner’s fingers in order to figure out the best way to figure out how to have a G spot orgasm. It might not happen the first time you try it, but you’ll get to know your internal self better as time goes on.  It takes time, but well worth it!

Dear Mark,I’m sorry to hear that you’re experiencing pain. I suggest you talk to your doctor about it first to make sure there is nothing else going on. If you find out that you just simply have a sensitive tip, you can try Promescent! It’s a mild desensitizing spray for your penis, but you still feel everything. Even further, it doesn’t transfer to your partner so she won’t feel it at all. It’s primarily used to prevent premature ejaculation or simply for men that just want to last longer. Even if you last 7 or 8 minutes, your partner might need 15 minutes to orgasm, so Promescent is a great way to help you last longer for your partner’s orgasm. Everyone should check it out, it’s the only FDA approved product of it’s kind. Or, you can always find a woman who loves to deepthroat. At least you’re having good sex, and I hope you can learn how to enjoy oral sex one day soon.