Hello, my men. I know you’re on here too and I also know that men are always looking for little ways to make their women feel special. And nowadays, everyone’s trying to save money. So, I thought of five really easy and completely affordable ways for you to make your woman smile and come off looking like a total Prince Charming. You’re welcome!
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Ask her what she wants in bed
You’ve been with your lady forever and you know exactly what she wants in bed, I know. But, trust me, checking in every few months and asking her what she wants when it comes to between-the-sheets-action could surprise you. She could have just read about a new position she wants to try in Cosmo or maybe really just wants to spend the night getting a backrub from you and cuddling. Actually asking her and following through on her desires will go a long way with your lady and will definitely get her to smile.
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Get her something sparkly
Tried and true, jewelry is the quickest way to a woman’s heart. I know you don’t have a ton of cash to spend on jewelry, especially on a “just because” gift that isn’t for the holidays or her birthday. But, you don’t have to be a millionaire to make your lady feel like a million bucks. For example, my jewelry collection, Je T’aime, is full of reasonably priced bling that any woman would love. I’d suggest my Je T’aime CZ Cocktail Ring. It’s under $55 and such a cute gift to get from a dude. If I didn’t design it myself and have my sample ring here, I’d totally be asking my boo to get it for me!
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Cook a meal
Whip up a special meal for your lady and be sure you handle everything, from soup to nuts. Don’t let her bring anything and especially don’t let her clean up. If she’s on a special diet, take that into consideration, too. Home cooking really is the sweetest and simplest way to show someone you care and all women appreciate when their men cook for them.
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Give her a night alone
If you have kids, sometimes the most romantic gift can be a night alone. I know, it sounds cold. But, if it’s what your lady really wants, then it’s romantic to give it to her. Make it really special by turning it into a gift basket of sorts that you can actually give to her. Record her favorite shows on your DVR, download a good book on her Kindle, buy her some nice bubble bath and package it all up with a food treat you know she’d enjoy and a meaningful card that explains everything you’ve prepared for her night alone. She’ll be so, so grateful and so, so smiley.
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Spa time together
Sign up for one of those deals websites that e-mails you daily with bargains in your neighborhood. Spas and salons are some of the most frequent deals that pop up. Keep your eye out for a spa treatment you both can get together. I love a couple’s massage and think it’s so, so sexy. If you act quickly on those deal sites, you can get two massages for under $100. That’s a real steal and it’ll be a treat for you too!
Alright, boys. I’ll talk to you soon. If you have any Valentine’s Day questions, please tweet them at me with the #AskPatti hashtag and I’ll be sure to get them answered!
