If you clicked into the post, I feel you, girl. You have that sinking, nagging, stomach-churning feeling that your man isn’t being faithful. It truly is one of the worst feelings in the whole wide world. Betrayal from someone you’ve poured your heart and soul into just sucks. There’s not other way around it. So, I’m not going to sugarcoat this. Read on for ways to tell if your man could be cheating on you.
Sudden hygiene or weight changes
Did your guy suddenly start slathering on cologne after years of telling you that his sweat is the only scent he’d wear? Or has he started losing weight when that’s never been a priority for him? Neither 100% mean that he’s cheating on you. But, a big change in hygiene or health habits could indicate that something fishy is going on. Those kinds of changes normally indicate that another big life change is going on. If you don’t know what that big life change is, it could be another woman.
Hinting to wanting to break up
Is he suddenly bringing up major problems in your relationship out of no where? When it comes to serious long-term relationships, men don’t leave them unless there’s someone else. That’s been my general experience. Women will leave because they’re unhappy. Men only leave if there’s something shiny and new wooing them away. So, if your guy seems to be trying to weasel his way out of your relationship completely out of the blue, it could be because there’s another lady urging him to commit to her and her alone.
New moves in the bedroom
Does he have brand new moves he’s pulling out during sex? Um, where do you think he learned them? Old dogs can learn new tricks, but only if someone is teaching them. If you’re not teaching him the new tricks, then who the hell is?
You suspect it
You know how in movies, sometimes a woman suspects her man is cheating on her, but it turns out he’s just doing something sweet like planning a surprise anniversary party for her? Yeah, that never, ever happens in real life! A woman’s intuition is her best tool. If you suspect something is going on, it probably is.
Did I miss any other telltale signs of a cheating man? Let me know in the comments. And if your man is cheating on you, get rid of him. Don’t take him back! Move on to someone who’s man enough to commit to you and you alone. He’s out there, girl. I know it!
