People always say that confidence is the most attractive quality in a potential partner. As women, we’re interested in the bold guy that can get an entire room laughing and likewise, we lust after the man that can keep utterly cool in any situation. Well, now it’s time for you to become that confident woman you’ve always wanted to be. There’s just no denying that confidence is key when attracting a partner and my latest podcast is all about how to do exactly that.
First of all, it’s easier said than done. If confidence was easy to acquire we’d all be wearing bikinis and asking Ryan Gosling out to dinner. We all have insecurities, especially when we’re younger, and especially in the bedroom. Here are 3 tips on how to cultivate confidence:
1. Confidence Countess
Confidence takes time. Whether it’s tending to your self-esteem a little bit everyday or beginning a huge lifestyle makeover, you’ve got to take time and make an effort to become that confident person you’ve always wanted to be.
2. Mistress of Mantras
Internal messaging, like repeating a positive mantra everyday, can help grow your confidence. Talk to yourself like you would talk to someone you love. Managing negative feelings and thoughts about yourself will enhance your confidence inside and out.
3. Bold Babe
Getting to know your own body, even through the use of a mirror is a brave move. Becoming confident with your body will allow yourself to cultivate the kind of confidence that will be attractive inside and outside of the bedroom. Let go of insecurities and remember, if he didn’t want to see you naked he wouldn’t be trying to have sex with you. Men are much less hard on women’s bodies than we think.
Whether you’re trying to make a great first impression on a date, tired of being stuck in the ‘friendzone,’ or just missing that spark in the bedroom — I’m giving advice on how to build your confidence in order to become that self-assured, brave woman you’ve always wanted to be. So listen to this weeks podcast!
We’ll give you lots of other tips and tricks this week! Plus, I love hearing from you! Please send all your questions to feedback@sexwithemily.com.
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