Sitting here tonight I started thinking about why I love women so much and where it all started.
My love of women started at a very young age. I loved my mother. I protected my mother. I honored my mother. My mother was batshit crazy, but I loved her. I always made sure she was feeling good.
It was my job in the house to make sure my mother was feeling good. Not a job that a five year old or six year old should have, but it was the role I played for my mother.
I was responsible for my mother’s happiness and I loved her dearly. I took on that role and I allowed myself to have that role. Of course, it greatly affected me in later relationships.
You see the things we do to our children will greatly affect them in later relationships. The expectations we put on our kids and the way we show up for love with them will affect them in the future.
I’m very aware of this as I am being a father. I’m very aware of how my actions will affect my daughter. Whenever I do something I feel is not beneficial to my daughter, I think about how I can change that behavior and show up for her in a different way so that she will have healthier male-female relationships in the future.
I love women. I love being with them, talking to them, learning from them, growing with them.
I love women so much that it got me into this business. The reason I’m in this business is because of the love I have for women.
When I was a teenager, I was able to experience my mom’s friends on some very intimate levels. No, get your mind out of the gutter, I never slept with them. But I was able to flirt with them and go places with them that most teenaged boys were never allowed to go.
I love women. At each stage of my life, the one consistent thing I’ve always had is a love for women. Even when women frustrated me, or annoyed me, or even when I was battling a woman, I still loved and honored and respected them.
1. They Are Great Teachers
Even when I thought I didn’t want a relationship because I was so angry with women at that moment, I still knew I’d come around and love them again. You see, I truly love women because they’re here to teach me things that a man will never teach me.
My relationships with women are so different and so special and so unique that as each one shows up in my life, I learn something different about myself.
Sure I love them for some of the obvious reasons too. I love being with women intimately. I’ve loved pleasing women since I was a little boy, literally. I’ve always been a pleaser. When it comes to sex, I love bringing a woman to places she’s never gone before. It truly brings joy to my heart and my existence.
2. They See The World Differently
I love women’s different viewpoints. I love how they think and how they share things in different ways. I feel invigorated around women.
Men are simple. You can read their emotions on their face. Women see life from all angles and often they open my eyes to life’s infinite possibilities.
I love each woman that shows up in my life for whatever reason. And I coach men to show women the best of who they are.
I tell men to be real, to be authentic and women will make themselves vulnerable. When a woman shows you her vulnerable side, that will change your life.
Give a woman the most authentic and honest you and they will give themselves to you body and soul.
When you love women and you’re authentic with them, when they leave your presence they’ll feel it and they’ll want more of you. Not only that, you’ll be able to open your mouth and talk authentically and not feel like you left something on the table.
3. They Inspire Me To Be A Better Man
I love women. Women are beautiful souls, beautiful beings. I love every bit of them and I want to thank all of the women who have been in my life.
I want to thank every woman who’s ever shown up for me, whether it was on a date, whether it was in the bedroom, whether it was in a relationship, whether it was as a friend.
I want to thank every woman who’s ever shown up because all of you have allowed me to become the man that I am today.
Lately I’ve been connecting with some beautiful, amazing women. Every one of them has shown me one thing. They’ve shown me that I’ve really become a open, honest, authentic and evolved man.
I’m not in a relationship with any of them. Well, that’s not true. Maybe I am in a relationship with every single one of them. Maybe every one of them has shown up and we’ve had a mini relationship, even though I haven’t had sex with them.
Sex doesn’t constitute a relationship.
I’ve been with women recently where we have made love to each other’s minds. We’ve connected so deeply that I feel so satisfied afterwards. Because when you truly love women, it’s not just about banging them. It’s not just about having sex with them. It’s about having sex with their minds, their soul. It’s about being so open, so authentic, and so honest with them that you connect on a level like never before.
Thank you. Thank you to all of the women who have shown up in my life. Thank you for showing up. Thank you for being so real. Thank you for being so honest. I’m a far greater man now because of all of you who have shown up.
Thank you for inspiring me to go back and read a lot of my blog posts. You can figure out the women who the blog posts are written about, if you are my closest friends.
I get my greatest inspiration just sitting across from you on the sofa, talking, looking into your eyes, feeling your energy. I get a high just connecting with you. I literally get high off the connection.
Thank you, all of you, for showing up in my life.
