Monthly Archives: November 2015

Why the third date is the most important date

Most of my single girlfriends get really nervous for first dates. And of course that’s understandable. First dates can be mega stressful. But, they’re actually not that important in the scheme of things. If a first date goes badly, there’s nothing on the line. Sure, you’ve wasted your time, but there’s not a ton of emotion that you’ve invested into this person. You can walk away completely unscathed. If a third date goes poorly, it feels a lot more high stakes. And I actually think a third date is the most important date of a relationship. Here’s why. Read more

Daily horoscopes: November 18, 2015

ARIES.

(March 20 - April 19):

There’s more to life than bailing friends out of their latest crisis du jour. Take the day off and relax. They’ll survive.

TAURUS.

(April 20 - May 20):

A first quarter Moon makes you exuberant and expansive. It’s been awhile since you felt confident. Stake out new territory. Read more

Daily horoscopes: November 17, 2015

ARIES.

(March 20 - April 19):

Last time you stood at a similar crossroads, things didn’t turn out well, but this time you’ll succeed. You’ve grown since then so be confident.

TAURUS.

(April 20 - May 20):

Don’t let your grievances be lumped in with everyone else’s. Fight your own battles. You’ll do a lot better. Read more

Why your bad date wasn’t actually bad

Several of my good friends and I are single right now and we’re in constant communication about our dates. It’s really fun to have this massive group text going. I love the updates and I feel super supported as I dip my toes back into the dating pool. One thing I’ve noticed that’s been bugging me, though, is that my friends are super harsh when they have a bad date. They’ll be mad that they wasted time on a dud and really negative about the whole experience. Here’s the thing…I actually don’t think there’s such a thing as a bad date. There’s always something positive to take away. If you don’t believe me, think about these three things. Read more

Daily horoscopes: November 16, 2015

ARIES.

(March 20 - April 19):

You want something to show for all the grief you’ve been through, but what would that be exactly? You’ll be happier putting the whole thing behind you.

TAURUS.

(April 20 - May 20):

An opinion isn’t as causal as someone makes it out to be. There’s a tremendous amount of emotional investment. Handle with care. Read more

Daily horoscopes: November 13, 2015

ARIES.

(March 20 - April 19):

It may not look like it now, but life at home and the office (twin war zones) is about to improve. There’s every reason to hope for the best.

TAURUS.

(April 20 - May 20):

Someone you thought was the odds-on favorite experiences a sudden drop in support. Now it looks like you may be a shoo- in. Go for it. Read more